‘There is never any hurry on the creative plane, and there is no lack of
opportunity.
Go as fast as you can, but never hurry.
Remember that in the moment you begin to hurry you cease to be a
creator.
Whenever you find yourself hurrying, call a halt.’
~Wallace Wattles
One common phrase I hear from people who just get started in the business is…
“I need to hurry and get some sales as fast as possible.”
Or… ‘I need to make money ASAP.’
Or… ‘I only have X amount of time to make this profitable.’
I totally understand this frame of mind because I’ve slipped in and out of it myself over the years.
I set myself a new and exciting goal that’s important to me and others who will be affected by it and so I start to justify shortcuts…
For example..
Fast invitations via some automatic social media inviter tool with a spirit of rush to get to the money question (and forgetting one of the most important intentions behind any human interaction, which is – how can I serve this person in the best way?)
Hurrying to get off the phone or out of the interaction so I can move onto the next prospect or marketing task because I’ve got goals to achieve and deadlines to meet.
Sloppily throwing together a piece of content so I can have something to send in order to get people back to the capture page or sales page.
These are normal states of mind for human beings and I hold no ill will toward myself or others for slipping into them every now and then.
That being said, it seems to be a good thing, for truth to touch our minds with gentle reminders every so often.
It’s usually not the speed of our work that produces the result and impact we seem to be looking for in life, but rather, the quality of work and the spirit behind it.
The other night my boys were begging to go play some basketball, as they often do.
The living room was scattered with their clothes and toys and little kid garbage.
Of course their bedrooms looked as if a tornado had touched down for a visit.
I saw a teaching moment and asked… ‘Hey boys, you know that wood stove out at grandpa Tim’s?’
‘Ya dad, we know.’
‘How ridiculous would it be for Grandpa to fiercely gaze into the pit of that stove shouting, ‘GIVE ME SOME HEAT!’
‘Pretty silly right?’
They quickly got the lesson.
To get fire, you must put in the wood.
The farmer reaps a great crop only after he’s planted the seeds, cultivated the ground and lovingly nursed the growth along.
It seems to be the same with business.
Maybe it’s good to resist the temptation to shout at the stove of our prospects…
‘Give me the money!’
And instead, take some extra time to ask some questions.
Get to know them.
Find out where they are in life and business.
Are they happy?
Do they have any unfullfilled dreams, goals or desires?
Is there any way we can serve them, with our business, products or otherwise?
In sales and marketing – this is equivalent to tilling the soul, planting the seeds, watering the ground and pulling the weeds.
And it often seems, to do this in the best way, a bit of time and care must be mixed into the process.
Sometimes, maybe it’s good, to slow down a bit, so we can speed up over time, and get the results that make the best kind of difference.
The ones with staying power.
As always, whenever I write or speak words of advice, I’m speaking to myself just as much as I’m speaking to anyone else who may be reading or listening.
We’re all in this together.
All the best,
Paul
Hi Paul, thank you for this reminder about the importance of taking time to get to know people instead of just trying to get their money.
While we all need money, building positive relationships is more important. Once people get to know, like, and trust you and they see that you care they are more likely to support or buy anything from you.
Keep up the good work Paul.
Really appreciate this message.
Vashti A Williams
Hi Vashti,
Thank you for taking the time to read the post and thank you so much for leaving the added insights.
I agree.
It’s sometimes hard to see in the beginning… but so much of the wealth we build is based on the relationships we have with the right people.
Both the financial wealth and the spiritual wealth.
So happy and thankful to know you and to be working with you and seeing you GROW!
Thank you, thank you, thank you for Vashti Williams!
Great advice Paul…I am going to take your advice to heart and try and focus on what you shared.
Thanks Bill! Let me know how it goes. I woke up this morning reflecting on how so much up my sense of contribution and impact comes from the interactions I have with people… I’m so glad our community places high value on those interactions. Thank you for helping us stay on course!
Hello! Sir Paul?
We’ll here my comments 🤠❤️🙏 YES, being said, it same to be a good things , for truth to touch our mind w/ gentle reminders every so often.
Yes , Sir Paul true the Farmer reaps a great crop only after he’s planted the seeds , Cultivated the ground and lovingly nursed the growth along.
Exactly , very true
thank you so much getting improvement MYSELF in business, and positive mindset
God is good ❣️🙏
Always be humble! Whatever it takes 🙏❤️🙏
Faithful
Glenda 💞
You are awesome Glenda. Love your gratitude and humility. Keep growing! 🙂