The Grey Area

Recently I came across a project that, initially, I became very excited about.

In fact, it almost seemed too good to be true.

The closer I looked, the more I wondered…

  1. Is this legal?
  2. Is this ethical?

I came to the conclusion that an argument could be made either way.

I had stepped into the grey area.

-An intermediate and often vaguely defined position, condition, or character 

  • an ethically gray area. 

Could be right, could be wrong.

Could be good, could be bad.

After some reflection I decided that this was not a place I wanted to be.

For me, it wasn’t worth the risk.  

A while back one of my boys had $50 stolen from his room.

Eventually it was revealed that one of his brothers was to blame.

This last week another $10 goes missing.

All eyes gazed accusingly at the prior perpetrator.

“Why, does everyone think it’s me?” he questioned.

“Because son, trust is like a brick wall… it’s hard to build and when you lose it, the entire wall comes crashing down.”

Is a short term profit, or an exciting business idea or anything really, worth losing that for?

“People of character are usually well-loved by everyone around them, but they make it clear that their first love is for the truth, even if it hurts. And that’s not a bad reputation to have.” -Jim Rohn

It’s easy to quote a famous person, or to spout a wise saying on your Facebook wall…

But doing, actually doing what your mentors inspire you to do…

That’s another matter entirely.