I’m super excited that you’re on this page now because I’m going to give you a special gift.
And that gift is a ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People PDF – Free Download!
And I believe you can use this PDF to get a lot of benefits in your life.
So here you go —–> the ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People PDF free Download at no charge.
I also want to share with you a just a couple of things that I really think will help you understand the importance of this information that you’re about to receive.
And understand what it is and how you can use it to go forth in life,
…having more success with the people around you, so that you can get more of you want out of your life.
- More money.
- More freedom.
- More happiness.
- More wealth.
- Great relationships.
- So on and so forth.
So, first I’ve got to tell you a little bit of a story.
I remember a time when I used to work in a corporate job.
And I remember just getting out of school, graduating from college, going to work at this fortune 500 company.
And I remember wanting to know how do I advance?
How do I make more money?
How do I move up the corporate ladder?
And I had a good friend at that time.
His name is Arnold.
Arnauld is from Burundi, Africa.
He had immigrated to the United States.
And he too wanted to know what is the secret to moving up in life.?
And I remember one time Arnold’s scheduled an appointment with his boss, Doug, because he wanted to find out.
“Doug, tell me. What’s the secret? How do I move up in life?”
So there I was sitting in my cubicle and I remember Arnold getting up from his cubicle which was near mine.
And he walks into the office and he’s back there for like 10 to 15 minutes.
And then he walks out of Doug’s office and he’s walking over to my cubicle and I stand up and he’s just got this bewildered look on his face.
He said something like, “You’re not going to believe what my boss told me.”
And so I was like,
“What happened dude? Tell me. What’s the secret?”
And Arnold basically said that he sat down, and his boss was like, “Alright Arnold, you want to know the secret on how to get ahead in life?
You want to know the secret on how to advance?”
And Arnold was like, “Yeah, tell me the secret.”
So he leans in close and Arnold’s ready for the secret and his boss says,
“Okay, step number 1 is you’ve got to get yourself a set of spandex racing shorts.
Step number 2 is you’ve got to buy a Lance Armstrong book.
And step number 3 is you’ve got to get yourself a racing bike.”
It sounded ridiculous to me.
& at the time, it sounded ridiculous to Arnold.
So his boss said in order advance, you’ve got to get spandex shorts, you’ve got to get a racing bike and you’ve got to get a Lance Armstrong book.
And Arnold’s like, “What are you taking about?”
And Doug says, “Stand up.”
So Arnold stands up and he said, “Do you see that office right over there where the Vice President of Operations?
You see where his office is?”
And Arnold says, “Yeah.” And he goes,
“That guy is interested in Lance Armstrong and racing bikes.
And if you want to move up in this company?
You need to learn about that stuff.”
And when Arnold told me that, I thought that was the most ridiculous thing that I’d ever heard.
There’s no way I’m going to make my living smooching and kissing other people’s behinds.
I was a little frustrated at that time.
Here’s the twist, I read ‘‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’’ for the second time.
And I realized that that was actually pretty good advice from Arnold’s boss.
And the reason why it’s pretty good advice is because of the fact that Dale Carnegie points out on this book,
…that you can be less educated,
……………..you can be less skilled, you can be less a lot of things.
And if you have the ability to get along with people.
And if you have the ability to communicate.
And if you have the ability to win friends and influence people,
…literally you will be advanced past the people who are more skilled, who are more talented, so on and so forth.
And it actually gives several examples in the book of how this happens.
He talks about engineers.
How they did those studies where there’s this groups of engineers.
And the highest paid engineers are not the ones who knew the most about Engineering.
They’re not the ones who were the most skilled.
They were the ones who were the most capable in communicating and getting along with other people.
So that’s why I’m excited that you’re about to download this ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People PDF free download,
….because I believe this could be some of the most valuable information that you run across.
A couple more things real quick:
The ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ book is actually copyrighted.
What that means is that it’s illegal to distribute the contents of the book for free on the internet.
So I can’t give you a full ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ PDF. It was written in 1937. And the copyright is still on that book.
However, I can give you a ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People PDF free download, that is going to give you the nuts and bolts of the book.
And that’s what I’ve actually prepared.
When I first started reading this book, what I did is I made an outline of all of the principles that are outlined in the booked.
And there are 30 of them.
And in this ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People pdf free download – you’ll see all 30 on page 1.
So you will be able to quickly look and see what the principles are.
Now, second thing that I did is because I wanted to make this stuff easy to remember for myself, and I wanted to make it actionable and because I noticed that in the book, several of the principles tend to repeat themselves in different places and because I also noticed that there were some negative comments in the booked.
For instance Dale Carnegie says, don’t criticize.
Don’t’ condemn.
Don’t complain.
Don’t put other people down.
Don’t criticized people in public.
ETC.
They’re a lot of these things I felt could be chunked into one positive principle such as, ‘be agreeable.’
I came up with a list of ‘13 laws of a pleasing personality’ which is basically a boiled down version of the meat ff ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’.
And you’re going to find that on page 2 of “How to Win Friends and Influence People PDF free download“.
And just real quick, what are those things?
Number 1: Smile.
Number 2: Be agreeable.
Number 3: Ask questions.
Number 4: Listen.
Number 5: Pour on honey. Say nice things, compliment, praise other people.
Number 6: Always make it about the other person when you’re speaking with them.
Keep the topic of conversation on them.
Things that they are interested in.
And things that they want and desire.
Number 7: Gratitude. Give an honest and sincere appreciation as Dale Carnegie puts it on the book.
Number 8: Always try to see things from the other person’s point of view.
Number 9: Remember and use people’s names.
Number 10: Always make the idea seem like it’s the other person’s idea and that’s helpful in influencing people. If they feel it’s their idea, that’s going to be a long way, that’s law number 10.
Number 11: Always allow the other person to save face. Never put someone down in public.
Number 12: When you’re wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
Humor.
That actually was not in the book on ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’.
However, in my studies and observations of successful people, I’ve noticed that they use humor to foster rapport and responsiveness and goodwill.
So humor is the step that I added on this ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People PDF that I think will help a lot in moving forward in life.
So my friend, my challenge to you is —
Number 1: Have you had any experience with some of these principles as good experiences? I’d love to hear your comments down below.
Number 2: Download this PDF and I also encourage you to memorize the second page of this ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ PDF free download, which is the ‘13 laws of a pleasing personality.’
I challenge you to memorize those laws.
And the third challenge for you is use them!
Use them in your life to go forth and foster great relationships and win friends and influence people because this will help us generate more income, have more freedom and have more happiness in life.
Ha haaa spandex and a bike….the image in my mind…get back here Jules 🙂
Okay. Seriously I love that book, I read it and read it again. Its the power to influence people that creates leaders. we gota build relationships its the sauce. Thansk for the resources Paul. What a bonus 🙂
Glad you could get a chuckle Julie!
That IS the sauce – well said…
Yes – build relationships.. For sure..
You’re welcome and hope you like the PDF.
Adios!
Paul
I love spandex shorts, they help me when I’m doing my workouts.. nobody does see me, but I do it because I love it, and it makes me feel good!!
It’s like this business, the same, nobody has to see me working if I don’t want to, but I’m in touch with who is interesting to me!
This post is actually great, it’S what we all need to learn.
I have that book, and it should be the book to buy for all business owners, or people that want to achieve something in life.
Thanks
Jana
Ha ha..
Doesn’t everyone, love spandex, that is?
J/K/
Thanks for sharing Jana..
And great point.
Good for you on being who you want to be!
Rock on!
Paul
Thanks. I’ve heard nothing but great things about “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” Excited to now read it. No excuses. Downloading now.
Hey Ginny,
WOOOOO HOOOOO
So glad to hear this post inspired you to pick up the book.
It can change your life!
Thanks for stopping by.
I appreciate it.
Paul
Thank you for sharing! Very great blog post! I love your PDF!!
Thanks Alanna!
Much appreciated.
Paul
Gratitude for the free gift Brother and I loved the story with spandex!
You are very welcome and – I dont’ blame you..
Eveyone loves a little spandex right?
😉
Paul
Spandex, really, LOL great blog today. Will G+ for you.
ha ha.. I know, you can’t make this stuff up can you Stephanie?
Thanks for the G+
Paul